140 Alex Bar & Grill Formerly: RJ's

100% love it
Gay, straight & in between
Everyone is welcome to drink, play, dance, sing, laugh and hang out together at this popular tavern.
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    • Denny
      Denny Over a year ago
      Loves it

      They updated their Jukebox

    • bhurysz
      bhurysz Over a year ago

      Hit it up after St Pattys parade, good music...great people and Irish food specials!!!

    • xenagaby
      xenagaby Over a year ago
      Loves it

      classical night
      Fun place x drinks

    • MarcieGurl
      MarcieGurl Over a year ago
      Loves it

      I Enjoyed
      Have been here twice on Sat. nites. Lots of people, very "mixed" crowd, lots of straight people but accepting. Prices are so-so. Have not eaten here but food looked Very Good . . . .

    • Just_Jack86
      Just_Jack86 Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Good times!
      I'm a frequent visitor of all the gay bars in Rochester and 140 Alex (for short) is one of my favorites. It's a very chill, laid-back atmosphere that has several themed nights throughout the week. Mondays are Trivia nights except when RuPaul's Drag Race is in season, then friends and I watch it there. Good bartenders. Upstairs on Saturday nights now they have drag shows w/ pretty good music for the younger crowd. All in all, it's a good place whether you want to unwind on a slow night or get bumpin' w/ your people on the weekends! Tuesdays is Karaoke night too!

    • jmwlmt
      jmwlmt Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Renamed-New Owners
      Now called 140 Alexander. Was there last weekend. Nice, clean upscale. Drinks slightly pricy. Mixed crowd. Caberet upstairs was hot as hell--as in the a/c wasn't working very well. Almost left during comedy show that we paid cover charge for because of it.

    • MammyGraham
      MammyGraham Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Nicish bar
      This is Rochester's version of the "nice" gay bar. In an older building, like the JR's in some other cities. Draught beer got it an extra star. I would suggest starting the night here, then moving on to Muther's for some drag and dancing.